curgoth | interview meme 2 (Reply)

Interview meme time again. Comment if you want to be questioned.

1.) When you realized you were attracted to the same sex, what were
your thoughts about those feelings?

Over a couple weeks, I went through:
"OMG! I want cock?!? That would make me... gay?! What the hell does
that mean?" (days of this, then:)
"Wait. I've been interested in women for a few years now. Am I still
interested in women? *checks* Yes. So... what does that mean? I
guess I'm bisexual, then? Huh. Okay, I can deal with that."

2.) What are the elements that make your long term relationship work
for you (such as: love, complacency, time invested, communication,
etc.)

Love, trust, communication. The rest comes from those three things.

3.) How do you deal emotionally with casual relationships that you
want more from but more isn't an option?

I don't let myself expect more than I'm getting. I angst about it,
but adjusting my expectations keeps me from being disappointed.

4.) Would you take Steve and I dancing with you sometime?

Of course!

5.) If you and I did a scene this weekend, what would it
look like? If I watch you do a scene this weekend, what will
it probably look like?

That depends a great deal on who I'm playing with. With