interview meme 2

[curgoth]

Interview meme time again. Comment if you want to be questioned.



1.) When you realized you were attracted to the same sex, what were
your thoughts about those feelings?

Over a couple weeks, I went through:
"OMG! I want cock?!? That would make me... gay?! What the hell does
that mean?" (days of this, then:)
"Wait. I've been interested in women for a few years now. Am I still
interested in women? *checks* Yes. So... what does that mean? I
guess I'm bisexual, then? Huh. Okay, I can deal with that."

2.) What are the elements that make your long term relationship work
for you (such as: love, complacency, time invested, communication,
etc.)

Love, trust, communication. The rest comes from those three things.

3.) How do you deal emotionally with casual relationships that you
want more from but more isn't an option?

I don't let myself expect more than I'm getting. I angst about it,
but adjusting my expectations keeps me from being disappointed.

4.) Would you take Steve and I dancing with you sometime?

Of course!

5.) If you and I did a scene this weekend, what would it
look like? If I watch you do a scene this weekend, what will
it probably look like?

That depends a great deal on who I'm playing with. With neeuqdrazil I always top. With other people, it depends - I'm
a switch. For exact details, I'm still working on exactly what I'm
going to do to neeuqdrazil...

Comments

I am temping fate here...

[not-matt.livejournal.com]

Hooray for Bi's! (guess who just found out about you ;P) I prefer just plain old queer myself, as that doesn't rule out trans peoples etc. I'm all about choice and keeing all my options open; equal-oppourtunity love, y'know? ;)

So there. I did. Lay it on me dude. Looking forward to seeing you (and seeing you at play) this weekend.

Re: I am temping fate here...

[curgoth]

My favourite label right now is "sapiosexual" - my two flip descriptions of the term are "intelligence is more important than gender" or, if I want to be more crass, "what's between your ears is more important than what's between your legs". Among other things, it includes not only transgendered persons, but aliens who might contact our species, etc., as long as they qualify as "intelligent" :)

Your questions:
1. Which caught your eye first, men or women?
2. Top, bottom or switch?
3. Favourite material for clothing?
4. If you could have any superpower, which one, and why?
5. What is the worst book you've ever read all the way through?